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008			221018s2023 nyu b 000 0deng
020			_a9781419764714
100	1		_aZane, Zachary
245	1	0	_aBoyslut _ba memoir and manifesto
264		1	_aNew York _bAbrams Image _c2023.
300			_axxv, 214 pages ;
520			_a"A sex and relationship columnist bares it all in a series of essays-part memoir, part manifesto-that explore the author's coming-of-age and coming out as a bisexual man and move toward embracing and celebrating sex unencumbered by shame As a boy, Zachary Zane sensed that all was not right when images of his therapist naked popped into his head. Without an explanation as to why, a deep sense of shame pervaded these thoughts. Though his therapist assured him a little imagination was nothing to be ashamed of, over the years, society told him otherwise. Boyslut is a series of personal and tantalizing essays that articulate how our society still shames people for the sex that they have and the sexualities that they inhabit. Through the lens of his bisexuality and much self-described sluttiness, Zane breaks down exactly how this sexual shame negatively impacts the sex and relationships in our lives, and through personal experience, shares how we can unlearn the harmful, entrenched messages that society imparts to us. From stories of drug-fueled threesomes and risqué Grindr hookups to insights on dealing with rejection and living with his boyfriend and his wife, Boyslut is reassuring and often painfully funny-but is most potently a testimony that we can all learn to live healthier lives unburdened by stigma"--
650		0	_aBisexualität
650		0	_aSchwul
650		0	_aAutobiographien
653			_aEssay
653			_aSexualitä
653			_aBeziehungen
942			_cBU
999			_c1240 _d1240